Your Talents, Your Gifts

Happy Friday! Fewww, this week is passing by really fast! I’m busy this week, but unlike last week, the busy-ness isn’t crippling me or sucking my energy dry. I think this is so called “downstream.” I’m flowing. Everything is happening at the same time. I’m just making sure that I write things down, so it won’t leave me with so much information and events coming in and out. I thought I would write a blog before I hit the next phase of the week, which is weekend! Today, I’ll write about the gifts each of you have.

My gifts, well sometimes it feels or acts like a curse, are a few. I’m an extreme empath which is a gift but also a curse or double edged sword. I have a talent in “space” clearing such as house, office, any physical space. I actually did three healings around space clearing this week. I also have a talent in healing a non-tangible “space.” Non-tangible space as in financial “space,” relationship “space,” career “space,” such and such. They are not what I learned to be good at by going to school, but it’s rather born with talent. It was a matter of buried deep in dust and needed to polish by learning to wake those talents up. These are my talents in the spiritual, my healing work realm.

I also have many other talents. I’m good at catching the rhythm and really good at moving my body. I’m also good at learning the moves quickly. This is why I create my Zumba class like I do now. I can learn the choreography pretty fast, so I can bring it to the class following week. Otherwise, I probably would need to slow down the new routines in the class.

I’m also good at finding the way to communicate with people. I love talking to the strangers. I can find a way to enjoy talking to anyone as long as the other person is open to it. Because I’m very result driven person and my goal is to have good communication, I do well on the projects which teams have discrepancies because of their poor communication. Unless there is a hidden agenda, like competition, envy, jealousy, fear, etc., I can pretty much bring the projects to the better state.

Another trait or could be talent is I’m forever optimistic. This can be also double edged sword if I’m not aware of my tendencies, but I tend to look at the best out of everything and everyone. It takes a little longer for me to realize that someone is a little bit toxic for me because I’m forever optimistic. Well, how can this be a talent instead of the flaw? Well, I don’t know but I’d rather be optimistic in life than going down to the negative outlook in life. It keeps me going with positive attitude even if I go through a rough time in life. I can come back pretty good when the rough time passes.

Anywho, the reason I’m spitted these out is that as you noticed, I’m not spelling out the talents like “I’m an amazing pianist,” “I’m an incredible writer,” or some sort. Your talents and gifts don’t have to be the tangible matter or concrete matter. You do have talents. You just haven’t thought about them as your talents. Or it could be that your family or your friends didn’t value those as talents. You do have talents, however.

It’s a key to live your life with fulfillment and happiness when you use your talents and gifts. You have those for a reason. They’re not just sitting there in you like “oh, these are useless but I came with them.” When you use your talents, something in you shift. The vibration of you gets excited. The world gets excited. When you use your talent, your energy flows and all the stagnation and blockage in you start to heal. When you use your talent, there are others who get inspired by, get healed by, and get encouraged by. Your gifts are not just for you.

If you are ever feeling like your life is missing something, do you know if you’re using your gifts? Do you know what your gifts are? Do you know it’s ok to use your gifts and talents even if you feel like those are not anything special? If you’re in doubt, call me up. I’ll tell you if you’re just sleeping or your talents are crying, etc.

I had one healee  a while ago who told me what he does for work. He also told me what he studied or did before but he stopped that direction because it didn’t feel like a “career” or “work.” When he said the subject matter of what he did before, I saw a sparkling rose wine like happy glitter around his energy field. When he told me what he does for work now, I saw all but stress and restraint. There is something wrong with that picture. The thing is, though, no matter what I say, how I inform what I see in my clairvoyant vision or my intuition, if the person is not open to hear it or is not ready to hear it, it doesn’t matter. That’s ok. We all have our own pace of learning and awareness journey.

So, I’d love it if you can keep this in mind for you and think about your talents and gifts. I’d love it if you think about if you’re using your talents and gifts. If you’re, super! If not, can you start thinking about how you can utilize your gifts? Why? Because it makes your life change. It makes you happier.

With that, have a wonderful weekend! 🙂

Pay Attention To the Messages From the Universe

Happy Friday evening! It’s already 10pm and I’m eating my dinner, well more like supper. Everybody in my gym is out this week for some reason and I covered quite a few classes this week. So, my body is really needing some rest and break. I’m going to eat while resting and write a blog at the same time! Not multi-tasking. I’m just doing three things simultaneously. I need to feed my body some protein, so there you go! Tonight, I’ll write about the messages from the universe. It’s subtle, so you have to pay attention to it or you would miss it or take it for granted!

Today, I had three messages and gifts from the universe. The first one was from the credit union I use. I went there to do my banking and there was a stuffed animal bunny sitting next to the counter I was standing. I’ve seen it there for a long time. It’s been there for a few years at least. Today, I felt like touching it, so I did. I took it on my hand and it was so squishy and soft. It’s a perfect stuffed animal for little kids. When I felt that, I thought of my mom who has Alzheimer’s. I told the person who was helping me at the counter that it was quite an usual looking bunny and I liked it. I said, “I wonder if my mom would like it.” I told him that my mom has Alzheimer’s and she has regressed back like a kid. Then, all of the sudden, he said, “Do you want one?” and he gave one to me. Just like that.

On the way to my car in the garage, I actually cried. I don’t know why I cried. Maybe I was totally not expecting such nice thing to happen in such occasion or maybe I was thinking of my mom would like it, who knows? I just knew that it was a gift from the universe and I was so grateful for that because earlier today I was asking the universe to help me out.

The second message from the universe happened while I was driving down to my evening Zumba gig this afternoon. As I was driving in the rush hour traffic on the familiar free way, I saw a sign on the building. I stared at it for a while and thought of the meeting I had earlier this week. To explain what I’ve been dealing with this week in short, I’ve been dealing with some strong energy attacks and no matter what, I hadn’t been able to clear them completely. When I saw the sign, I thought of the meeting I had and then thought it was a message from the universe.

So, while I was driving, I worked on the energy by specifically focused on the shock and trauma after the meeting. Then, the torturous energy and knives like edges in my body and aura disappeared. I could smile while driving. I was back to my normal laid back self. I was so grateful. If I had missed that sign as a message from the universe, I know I would have been still struggling with the painful energy in my space. That’s huge!

The third message was another gift from the universe. As soon as I arrived at the gym to teach Zumba, one of the regular ladies who come to my Zumba class handed me over a bag saying, “This is for you because you work hard.” There were two big cans of coconut water, iced. I looked at her and said, “thank you” to her. That was super sweet of her. I’ve been so busy this week by covering so many classes and dealing with energy stuff on the other hand, my cooking and prepared food to take for each classes were behind. So, I didn’t bring anything to the gym tonight. That coconut water was super delicious in my car after the Zumba gig tonight. My first gift from my Zumba class from that location. I’m so grateful.

When life gets challenging, we get too focused on the problems and “hardness in life.” Then, we might miss the messages from the universe. Just ask, it shall be given.

When I came back home to see the dried plants in the garden, I remembered that I told those plants that I would water them today for sure. I’ve been busy, so I didn’t get to do that earlier today. As I watered the plants, I saw new flowers were popping up from the Hydrangea. The old part of the hydrangea had been so dry and I’ve been watering here and there and talked to them to hang in there. When I saw the new flowers, it made me really smile.

Just because you see the dying parts doesn’t mean that’s the end of the story. There are the new, great stuff coming out of it. You just can’t see it at a moment. It shows up when it comes out. Life is like that, too. So, pay attention to the messages from the universe and the gifts from the universe. It’s always there for you. Just ask. It shall be given.

With that, have a wonderful weekend! 🙂

Matching To Others vs Vibrating In Your Own Vibration

Good Wednesday evening! I know, lately my blog writing happens whenever I have time. My July started to speed up after 4th of July, so today was the first day I could think of writing a blog. I have one more hour of healing office hours, so I’ll use it for writing a spiritual blog. Today, I’ll write about the energy vibration and differences in vibration. Hence, the title is “Matching to Others vs Vibration in Your Own Vibration!”

When we do the clairvoyant training, we set the “class color” for the day. If you’re scientist, you know color is a vibration. Sound is also vibration. In spiritual realm, everything is communicated by vibration. So, it can be color or can be sound, etc. You have an experience in certain colors making you feel calm, cool, warm, jittery, etc. That’s because the color has its frequency, i.e. vibration and at the time, your vibration has reaction to the certain vibration, i.e. color.

When I do the space holder role in the clairvoyant class, we meditate to clear our energy and set out tools for the class. Then, I take a look at the color of the vibration of each students and then look at the “class vibration” which is color. I pick the color which is not too much for students, but safe, light, grounding, amusing for that class of the day. Then, students learn to “match” their vibration to the class color to learn the tools for that class. This “matching” the vibration, i.e. color is specific for the class because we have specific goals for the class. So, before students take off, my teacher guide them to go back to their own vibration.

When clairvoyant students do the readings and I do the readings in my practice, we also “match” the vibration to the readees vibration. Not exact match because it would be too close if it’s exact color, but similar. I’m sure there are many readers and psychic who do readings on their own style, but I bet they do “match” the vibration somewhat to the readee so they can get information. Ok, this is a quite a bit of side story.

These are the examples of “matching” the vibration to others for the specific reasons and specific intent. We do it consciously in this case. However, we, people, do match other’s vibration unconsciously everyday without knowing it. Do you talk to older people slower than talking to younger people? Do you talk to males differently than talking to females? Do you talk differently to your kids than your partners? That’s also a little bit of matching, sort of. These are probably less harmful to you than other examples I’ll give you in the following. I’ll give my Zumba teaching for an example again because it’s very acute and right on my face all the time.

A couple of weeks ago, I exchanged emails with my good healer friend. I was mentioning about sometimes I can totally in the joy mode in teaching Zumba class, but it’s very rare. I was telling her that sometimes I can’t even get there. She responded to me by asking what would make it enjoyable for me. That question made me think. Email exchange with this healer friend sometimes makes me “think.” It made me think what would make me joyous in teaching Zumba.

It happens when I totally let go of the “perfect pictures,” meaning how I look, if I’m teaching well, if people are following well, if people are getting well, etc. It happens when I love the song, the music. It happens when the choreography, i.e. dance is complex enough so that I don’t get bored. It happens when I can totally dance all the way like running 100 meters in 15 seconds (I don’t know if that’s slow or fast. I just now that was the time I ran when I was doing the track in grade school).

When I was spelling out like that, I started to see why I can’t get there in my Zumba teaching sometimes. I’m too focused on “matching” to make the class, the people happier. Although I didn’t think I was doing it, I realize more and more that I was totally matching my vibration to the class.

Because my Zumba class slots are three of them in the morning and two of them in the evening, and one of the evening classes is not with how I hold my style, I’ve been searching to find the balance ever since I started to teach in last December. Majority of them are older people, 50s, 60s, 70s. Let me clarify this, though. Age is not the issue because one of the evening classes is also older population; however, they’re on it. They are hungry for new dancing. They’re aggressive! The difference is, they’re more exposed to the “dancing” than the others. The demographic differences, that is.

As I was becoming more aware of how I’ve been dumbing myself down, well ok, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that I’m so up there or something. I have a little bit different energy than the typical population and I have to use it in certain ways. That’s why I workout. So, when people’s energy levels are much lower than mine, I guess I was toning down my energy. Hence, I couldn’t get to my “joy ride” often in my Zumba teaching.

Since I realized it more and more, I decided to raise the bar of my Zumba class. I’m picking up the songs which makes me want to dance. I do care a little bit if people can pick up or not, so I won’t bring in super complex choreography, but if it’s too mundane, my energy started to fall a sleep during the class. So, although I might appear psychotic compared to the people in the class sometimes or many times, I decided that’s the way I need to run. So, I’ve been doing that.

With that, with my full vibration of my own vibration, it does make a huge difference. After the class, it gives me a buzz after the class is done. I feel like singing and I would be in super dooper mode. Then, I know I was operating my vibration in my own vibration. When I match others or the class, often times, I have plain feeling afterwards. Not bad, but plain.

After I started to do that this month, I started to see which classes are not the “match” for my vibration. I already started to ponder about how some schedules are limiting my healing business, I decided to let go of one of them for now. I talked to someone in the gym and hopefully soon, I’ll be taken out of the schedule to teach that class. When I’m not enjoying at all and my healing work is suffering on top of it, it really eats up my energy. Maybe I should have done it sooner, but I have other tendency to operate strongly which is “responsibility.” So, it’s all right. Learning comes in my own speed.

If you have a partner, I bet you match your vibration to your partner, especially if you’re a female. It might be working in certain way, but in the long run for your soul’s journey, changing your vibration to match other’s vibration only limits your full capacity as a soul. Your vibration is your own. No one else has your vibration. It’s unique on your own. You have your vibration for your talent. So, if you’re vibrating in someone else’s vibration by matching, you’re definitely suppressing who you really are. So, maybe you can ponder about that. I’m not saying that you need to change at this point because maybe you’ve never heard of such thing I’m telling you right now. Just ponder about it to start with.

When you’re vibrating on your own vibration, you start to see what is suitable for you and not. That’s when you do the clearing process in your life. You remove what’s not serving for your vibration, so you can create some space for new things which are suitable for your vibration. This applies to people, things, jobs, environments, anything. Vibrate on your own vibration!

Oh by the way, I’m holding a remote class in August, “How to Shift Your Stress.” I used the word “stress” because anyone can relate to that. But, it’s all about shifting your energy vibration and thoughts from negative to positive, so you can bring more joy and abundance in all areas of your life. I’m also planning to start a class series, “Energetic Tools for Sensitive People.” I’ll teach you the energetic tools to manage your energy and energy coming from the life’s circumstances. Because I’m super sensitive, I can probably help sensitive people, so the topics will be catered for sensitive people. If you’re normal sensitivity, you can still join me because you can definitely benefit from it. Shoot me an email for more info or register for the class at

With that, have a wonderful rest of the week! 😀